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00:00 [Music] 00:06 okay this is shiraz just giving you a 00:08 heads up that when 00:09 energy shifts i yawn and i cough so 00:11 you’re going to hear that in the video 00:13 and just giving you heads up i’m not 00:15 sick i’m not tired that’s just how it 00:17 goes so 00:17 here we go enjoy my husband and i are 00:21 looking to move forward with our 00:24 business 00:25 uh and i guess 00:29 there’s some fear uh 00:32 surrounding that okay 00:35 fear of fear of uh being judged 00:39 and feel fear of uh failure 00:42 spelling okay 00:47 so the thing is both are going to happen 00:52 so it just comes with 00:55 with the territory so if you avoid them 00:58 you’re going to avoid 00:59 everything that results as 01:02 of of the getting through the failure 01:06 and getting through the judgment and all 01:08 the success and all the benefits and 01:10 rewards that come with it so you’re 01:13 going to get judged no matter what you 01:14 do 01:16 okay whether you go forward or not 01:19 whether you have successes or not people 01:20 are going to judge you that’s what’s 01:21 just what people do 01:22 they judge and we tend to think of 01:26 judgment as a negative thing but there’s 01:27 positive judgment out there too 01:30 so if your goal is to avoid judgment 01:34 your goal is to avoid everything 01:39 okay now 01:43 there are three ways to handle judgment 01:46 and 01:47 99 of the population uses the first two 01:49 ways 01:51 so the first way is 01:54 to reject the judgment and this is 01:56 usually when negative judgment comes in 01:57 but some people do with positive 01:58 judgment the people that say 02:00 if i say oh you’re beautiful and you’re 02:01 like oh stop but i’m not so beautiful 02:03 that’s avoiding judgment it’s avoiding 02:04 positive judgment 02:05 but usually it’s like i don’t really 02:07 like you well you should like me 02:09 i’m a wonderful person that’s avoiding 02:10 negative judgment 02:12 and that doesn’t work because you’re 02:13 pushing against the energy of the person 02:15 that’s judging you and that 02:17 that never turns out well right so 02:20 it becomes a fight it and it’s draining 02:23 and 02:23 it stops you from doing certain things 02:26 because you’re trying to avoid these 02:28 judgments or combat these judgments 02:30 so if someone gives you a judgment 02:35 um don’t try to fight back against them 02:38 but 02:39 the other thing people do is they accept 02:40 the judgment and if it’s a negative 02:42 judgment that’s 02:43 that’s horrible because i say man you 02:45 really suck you’re like oh my god you’re 02:47 right i do suck 02:48 why do i even try i suck and then you’re 02:51 not going to create anything 02:53 but it can also be detrimental if i give 02:55 you a positive judgment because if i say 02:57 monica i think you’re perfect 02:59 and you say oh my god thank you when you 03:01 take that on then 03:02 it’s not that you suddenly think you’re 03:04 perfect you think that 03:06 i think you’re perfect so you have to 03:07 continue to try to be what i think is 03:09 perfect and you’re not you stop trying 03:11 to be you 03:12 you’re trying to be what i perceive as 03:13 perfect 03:15 and that’ll mess you up 03:20 okay so that’s why you don’t want to 03:23 accept 03:24 the judgments from other people either 03:26 so you’re not rejecting and you’re not 03:27 receptive which is what most people do 03:29 so you want to be in the sweet spot 03:31 where if i say anything to you you say 03:33 oh thank you you acknowledge that i’ve 03:34 had that judgment of you 03:36 and then you just let it go by even if 03:38 it’s a wonderful thing 03:39 i think you’re you’re so beautiful 03:40 monica you’re just like oh thank you 03:41 shiraz but then you still function as 03:43 you 03:44 not as someone that needs to be 03:45 beautiful or be seen as beautiful be 03:46 accepted as beautiful you’re just gonna 03:47 be you 03:52 wow okay 03:56 and if i say something like monica 03:58 you’re a you’re just like oh thank 03:59 you sure i was gonna be like wait did 04:00 you just thank me 04:01 but you just let it go bye 04:06 and it’s all good and you’re an ease and 04:09 it doesn’t matter what people think of 04:10 you and how they judge you 04:12 because most of what is coming at you in 04:14 judgment if not all 04:15 is is basically coming from who i am in 04:18 my world and that has nothing to do with 04:20 you i’m just expressing 04:21 what’s going on for me and you’re 04:23 letting it affect you if you try to 04:24 resist it or accept it 04:32 okay powerful thank you so are you 04:35 willing to destroy the belief 04:36 that you need to avoid the judgment of 04:39 other people 04:40 yes i am 04:56 okay now let’s look at failure 05:02 so it’s almost it’s almost similar if 05:05 you’re afraid of failure 05:08 then the best way to avoid failure is to 05:12 just not 05:12 do anything because then you don’t get 05:14 that sense well i tried but i failed 05:17 but for me the true definition of 05:19 failure is just never doing anything 05:22 because at least when i’m i’m making the 05:23 attempts and even if they don’t work out 05:26 i don’t look that as failure i looked at 05:27 well now i learned that i shouldn’t do 05:29 that 05:29 and now i learned that i’ve got a block 05:31 here and now i’ve learned that i 05:33 don’t want to work with that person 05:35 until we get to a place where it’s like 05:36 this is working 05:37 all right and sometimes 05:41 you get that success the first time but 05:43 very rarely is it on that first time 05:44 it’s usually 05:45 through these failure failure failure 05:47 failure success 05:50 and there’s that one thing with thomas 05:52 edison i don’t know if it’s true or not 05:53 but i’ve heard it so many times you know 05:55 10 000 times you’ll learn in 10 000 ways 05:57 you’ll learn not to make a light bulb 05:59 before you made a light bulb but that’s 06:02 that’s how you want to be 06:06 now my only thing with failure is if 06:08 you’re getting repeated failure 06:10 trying to do things you want to examine 06:13 are you getting failure from what you’re 06:15 doing or are you getting failure from 06:16 what you’re being 06:18 because i found if you shift a certain 06:20 belief 06:21 then you can do the exact same thing and 06:23 succeed at it because the belief is 06:25 what’s stopping you not the action 06:29 so are you willing to destroy the belief 06:32 that you need to avoid failure 06:34 at all costs yes i am 06:59 now keep in mind you’re working with 07:00 your husband 07:03 so you’re shifting these beliefs 07:06 he may not be shifting these beliefs so 07:09 if this starts to come up for you the 07:10 first thing you want to ask is is this 07:12 mine or is this my husband 07:13 or is it someone else’s whose story is 07:15 this and if it’s your husband’s 07:17 step out of it and the cool thing is 07:21 whoever’s belief is stronger wins 07:25 so if you’re set in that we’re going to 07:27 do this it’s going to be awesome and 07:28 there’s nothing going to stop 07:30 us he’ll buy your story instead of you 07:32 buying his story 07:33 and you’ll see him shift as you shift 07:37 and and it’s really the other way around 07:39 it’s he’s have a 07:40 has a he’s at the higher vibration it’s 07:43 usually me that’s that 07:46 so you’re saying that i will i should 07:49 my my energy will rise up to his belief 07:53 his thought pattern basically i’m 07:54 probably not saying that but i’ll rise 07:57 up to where he is 07:59 or further yes oh wow you didn’t like 08:02 that 08:03 are you allowed to have a higher 08:04 vibration than him 08:08 yes yeah it’s not coming up true 08:13 i am allowed i just don’t i i haven’t 08:15 allowed myself to 08:19 get to where his beliefs are in regards 08:21 to where he sees our business can go 08:24 okay what’s wrong with getting that that 08:27 high 08:29 um it’s it’s a new way of thinking for 08:32 me 08:33 a new way of being okay 08:36 so do you have to make sure you’re 08:38 you’re slightly lower than your husband 08:42 no i i just think that i 08:47 because he’s here in his belief system i 08:50 just 08:50 i i feel like sometimes my beliefs 08:53 isn’t that strong yeah but see that’s 08:57 your story now right 08:59 so you’re sitting there going well he’s 09:01 here and i’m here and that’s your story 09:03 and because that’s your story you’re 09:04 going to lock yourself into that 09:06 position 09:07 you’re not going to let yourself come up 09:08 to him because that doesn’t match your 09:10 story 09:12 so are you willing to step out of the 09:14 story that your husband’s 09:15 always at a higher frequency than you 09:17 yes i am 09:35 oh 09:43 okay how does that feel better worse 09:45 same or different 09:47 feels better okay good 09:52 [Music] 09:54 practice being a different way now 09:57 absolutely 09:58 okay i’ll be purchasing the book as well 10:01 thank you 10:02 welcome thank you hey this is shiraz and 10:05 if you made 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