My Goal Is To Avoid Judgment And Failure – Accepting that Judgment and Failure are Part of Success

by | Oct 8, 2020


Learn how, by changing your subconscious beliefs, you can change your reality. The problem people have with their beliefs is that 99% of them are present at a subconscious level and are often in opposition to their conscious goals. The beliefs we’ve created, for the most part, are designed to keep us safe. Unfortunately, being safe doesn’t mean being happy, healthy, or successful.

Are you too worried of these two uncontrollables: judgment and failure?

In this video, the woman shared how she and her husband were struggling with their business because of their fear of being judged and failing. Through Energetic Magic, she destroyed the belief that she needs to avoid failure and judgment at all costs.

Please note that when energy shifts in people, Shiraz’s body reacts to it, causing him to cough or yawn.

00:00 [Music] 00:06 okay this is shiraz just giving you a 00:08 heads up that when 00:09 energy shifts i yawn and i cough so 00:11 you’re going to hear that in the video 00:13 and just giving you heads up i’m not 00:15 sick i’m not tired that’s just how it 00:17 goes so 00:17 here we go enjoy my husband and i are 00:21 looking to move forward with our 00:24 business 00:25 uh and i guess 00:29 there’s some fear uh 00:32 surrounding that okay 00:35 fear of fear of uh being judged 00:39 and feel fear of uh failure 00:42 spelling okay 00:47 so the thing is both are going to happen 00:52 so it just comes with 00:55 with the territory so if you avoid them 00:58 you’re going to avoid 00:59 everything that results as 01:02 of of the getting through the failure 01:06 and getting through the judgment and all 01:08 the success and all the benefits and 01:10 rewards that come with it so you’re 01:13 going to get judged no matter what you 01:14 do 01:16 okay whether you go forward or not 01:19 whether you have successes or not people 01:20 are going to judge you that’s what’s 01:21 just what people do 01:22 they judge and we tend to think of 01:26 judgment as a negative thing but there’s 01:27 positive judgment out there too 01:30 so if your goal is to avoid judgment 01:34 your goal is to avoid everything 01:39 okay now 01:43 there are three ways to handle judgment 01:46 and 01:47 99 of the population uses the first two 01:49 ways 01:51 so the first way is 01:54 to reject the judgment and this is 01:56 usually when negative judgment comes in 01:57 but some people do with positive 01:58 judgment the people that say 02:00 if i say oh you’re beautiful and you’re 02:01 like oh stop but i’m not so beautiful 02:03 that’s avoiding judgment it’s avoiding 02:04 positive judgment 02:05 but usually it’s like i don’t really 02:07 like you well you should like me 02:09 i’m a wonderful person that’s avoiding 02:10 negative judgment 02:12 and that doesn’t work because you’re 02:13 pushing against the energy of the person 02:15 that’s judging you and that 02:17 that never turns out well right so 02:20 it becomes a fight it and it’s draining 02:23 and 02:23 it stops you from doing certain things 02:26 because you’re trying to avoid these 02:28 judgments or combat these judgments 02:30 so if someone gives you a judgment 02:35 um don’t try to fight back against them 02:38 but 02:39 the other thing people do is they accept 02:40 the judgment and if it’s a negative 02:42 judgment that’s 02:43 that’s horrible because i say man you 02:45 really suck you’re like oh my god you’re 02:47 right i do suck 02:48 why do i even try i suck and then you’re 02:51 not going to create anything 02:53 but it can also be detrimental if i give 02:55 you a positive judgment because if i say 02:57 monica i think you’re perfect 02:59 and you say oh my god thank you when you 03:01 take that on then 03:02 it’s not that you suddenly think you’re 03:04 perfect you think that 03:06 i think you’re perfect so you have to 03:07 continue to try to be what i think is 03:09 perfect and you’re not you stop trying 03:11 to be you 03:12 you’re trying to be what i perceive as 03:13 perfect 03:15 and that’ll mess you up 03:20 okay so that’s why you don’t want to 03:23 accept 03:24 the judgments from other people either 03:26 so you’re not rejecting and you’re not 03:27 receptive which is what most people do 03:29 so you want to be in the sweet spot 03:31 where if i say anything to you you say 03:33 oh thank you you acknowledge that i’ve 03:34 had that judgment of you 03:36 and then you just let it go by even if 03:38 it’s a wonderful thing 03:39 i think you’re you’re so beautiful 03:40 monica you’re just like oh thank you 03:41 shiraz but then you still function as 03:43 you 03:44 not as someone that needs to be 03:45 beautiful or be seen as beautiful be 03:46 accepted as beautiful you’re just gonna 03:47 be you 03:52 wow okay 03:56 and if i say something like monica 03:58 you’re a you’re just like oh thank 03:59 you sure i was gonna be like wait did 04:00 you just thank me 04:01 but you just let it go bye 04:06 and it’s all good and you’re an ease and 04:09 it doesn’t matter what people think of 04:10 you and how they judge you 04:12 because most of what is coming at you in 04:14 judgment if not all 04:15 is is basically coming from who i am in 04:18 my world and that has nothing to do with 04:20 you i’m just expressing 04:21 what’s going on for me and you’re 04:23 letting it affect you if you try to 04:24 resist it or accept it 04:32 okay powerful thank you so are you 04:35 willing to destroy the belief 04:36 that you need to avoid the judgment of 04:39 other people 04:40 yes i am 04:56 okay now let’s look at failure 05:02 so it’s almost it’s almost similar if 05:05 you’re afraid of failure 05:08 then the best way to avoid failure is to 05:12 just not 05:12 do anything because then you don’t get 05:14 that sense well i tried but i failed 05:17 but for me the true definition of 05:19 failure is just never doing anything 05:22 because at least when i’m i’m making the 05:23 attempts and even if they don’t work out 05:26 i don’t look that as failure i looked at 05:27 well now i learned that i shouldn’t do 05:29 that 05:29 and now i learned that i’ve got a block 05:31 here and now i’ve learned that i 05:33 don’t want to work with that person 05:35 until we get to a place where it’s like 05:36 this is working 05:37 all right and sometimes 05:41 you get that success the first time but 05:43 very rarely is it on that first time 05:44 it’s usually 05:45 through these failure failure failure 05:47 failure success 05:50 and there’s that one thing with thomas 05:52 edison i don’t know if it’s true or not 05:53 but i’ve heard it so many times you know 05:55 10 000 times you’ll learn in 10 000 ways 05:57 you’ll learn not to make a light bulb 05:59 before you made a light bulb but that’s 06:02 that’s how you want to be 06:06 now my only thing with failure is if 06:08 you’re getting repeated failure 06:10 trying to do things you want to examine 06:13 are you getting failure from what you’re 06:15 doing or are you getting failure from 06:16 what you’re being 06:18 because i found if you shift a certain 06:20 belief 06:21 then you can do the exact same thing and 06:23 succeed at it because the belief is 06:25 what’s stopping you not the action 06:29 so are you willing to destroy the belief 06:32 that you need to avoid failure 06:34 at all costs yes i am 06:59 now keep in mind you’re working with 07:00 your husband 07:03 so you’re shifting these beliefs 07:06 he may not be shifting these beliefs so 07:09 if this starts to come up for you the 07:10 first thing you want to ask is is this 07:12 mine or is this my husband 07:13 or is it someone else’s whose story is 07:15 this and if it’s your husband’s 07:17 step out of it and the cool thing is 07:21 whoever’s belief is stronger wins 07:25 so if you’re set in that we’re going to 07:27 do this it’s going to be awesome and 07:28 there’s nothing going to stop 07:30 us he’ll buy your story instead of you 07:32 buying his story 07:33 and you’ll see him shift as you shift 07:37 and and it’s really the other way around 07:39 it’s he’s have a 07:40 has a he’s at the higher vibration it’s 07:43 usually me that’s that 07:46 so you’re saying that i will i should 07:49 my my energy will rise up to his belief 07:53 his thought pattern basically i’m 07:54 probably not saying that but i’ll rise 07:57 up to where he is 07:59 or further yes oh wow you didn’t like 08:02 that 08:03 are you allowed to have a higher 08:04 vibration than him 08:08 yes yeah it’s not coming up true 08:13 i am allowed i just don’t i i haven’t 08:15 allowed myself to 08:19 get to where his beliefs are in regards 08:21 to where he sees our business can go 08:24 okay what’s wrong with getting that that 08:27 high 08:29 um it’s it’s a new way of thinking for 08:32 me 08:33 a new way of being okay 08:36 so do you have to make sure you’re 08:38 you’re slightly lower than your husband 08:42 no i i just think that i 08:47 because he’s here in his belief system i 08:50 just 08:50 i i feel like sometimes my beliefs 08:53 isn’t that strong yeah but see that’s 08:57 your story now right 08:59 so you’re sitting there going well he’s 09:01 here and i’m here and that’s your story 09:03 and because that’s your story you’re 09:04 going to lock yourself into that 09:06 position 09:07 you’re not going to let yourself come up 09:08 to him because that doesn’t match your 09:10 story 09:12 so are you willing to step out of the 09:14 story that your husband’s 09:15 always at a higher frequency than you 09:17 yes i am 09:35 oh 09:43 okay how does that feel better worse 09:45 same or different 09:47 feels better okay good 09:52 [Music] 09:54 practice being a different way now 09:57 absolutely 09:58 okay i’ll be purchasing the book as well 10:01 thank you 10:02 welcome thank you hey this is shiraz and 10:05 if you made 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